The loss of a pet is never easy.

As I have written many times, pets are no longer just pets; they are part of the family.

Since pets live inside and sleep in our beds, it is easy to see how pet owners have become more attached to their pets than ever before.

The more attached you are to your pet, the more difficult it is when they die.

Many pet owners are surprised by the intensity of their grief when their pet passes away. Losing a member of the family, including pets, brings a great sense of loss.

The pain associated with grief is necessary and is a normal part of the grieving process.

You are not alone. Most pet owners who have developed a unique bond to their pet experience the same degree of grief when their pet dies.

It is usual for you to grieve deeply after the death of your pet.

If you are struggling or having difficulty coping with the loss of your pet, there are pet loss support groups.

Pet loss hotlines and therapists who specialize in the loss of a pet are also available.

Veterinarians typically are not professional grief counselors, but they can be sensitive to your pain and have a lot of experience consoling grieving pet owners.

Your veterinarian can certainly answer your questions, offer support and guide you.

Your veterinarian can give you the information to help you find the support you need.

Pet owners have several options for the aftercare, the final act of caring, for their beloved pet.

Pet owners may choose to bury their pet either in their back yard or in a pet cemetery. Many families may honor their pet with a memorial service.

Just like the death of a human family member, it is important to have closure.

Another prevalent method of aftercare in recent years is having your pet cremated.

There are several different options to choose from with regards to pet cremation.

You may want to have your pet cremated but not have their remains returned to you.

Even if you choose not to have the remains returned, you can still treasure the memories of your pet.

You can purchase a clay paw imprint of your pet, a paw print necklace with your pet’s name engraved on the back, and receive a certificate of passing.

If you choose to have your pet’s remains returned, you can select from a large variety of urns. Urns come in different shapes and sizes.

Some containers are cherry wood, and others are porcelain. You may also choose to have a brass nameplate attached to the urn.

There are many different ways pet owners can memorialize their cherished pet with respect and dignity.

Companies or individuals that specialize in pet cremations offer compassionate care and support for you and your family.

They offer an extensive selection of unique remembrance items which you can keep and treasure forever.

I find it comforting to know there is someone who understands the needs of pet owners during their time of grief.

Memorializing your companion may be helpful and essential to allow you to have closure, move forward and eases the grief process.

Remember, you are not alone.

Whether you are anticipating the loss of your pet or presently experiencing grief, contact your veterinarian for assistance.

Your veterinarian will understand what you are going through and can provide information and guidance during this difficult time.

Dr. Jeff Castle is a veterinarian at Clark County Veterinary Clinic.